It Starts at Home.

Parenting with Biblical Truth, loving boundaries, and practical wisdom for everyday life. Rooted in 35 years of caring for children with faith, love, and purpose.

Experience
35 years professional
Certified
Nanny Institute, '89
Based
Salisbury, NC
Tonya baking in the kitchen with two laughing children
A Letter from Tonya

"I have spent 35 years in homes just like yours, holding newborns, raising toddlers, and guiding teenagers, and I've seen firsthand what makes the difference in a child's life. It starts at home. It starts with you.

As a certified professional nanny with over three decades of experience, I created It Starts at Home to equip parents with the tools, wisdom, and confidence to raise children rooted in faith, love, and purpose.

Because you don't have to figure this out alone. God called you to this. And He will equip you for it.

And I'm here to walk alongside you."

Tonya Skelly
Founder · It Starts at Home
For Churches & Ministries

Parent training classes for your community.

I travel to churches, ministries, mom groups, and conferences across the country to teach parents the practical wisdom of raising children rooted in faith. Two-hour interactive classes, one-hour keynotes, in-person or virtual.

35
Years caring for children
'89
Beverly Hills certified
Tonya with two children at a sunlit park picnic
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Speaking & Training Investments

Equipping parents and caregivers to thrive.

Built for churches, conferences, and mom groups across the country.

01
Keynote

The Keynote Talk.

One-hour presentation.

Perfect for Sunday services, women's conferences, mom group nights, and special church events. A focused message rooted in scripture and three and a half decades of caring for children.

Starting at $300
02
Class

The Parent Training Class.

Two-hour interactive training.

Designed to equip parents with practical strategies, tools, and confidence for everyday parenting challenges. Interactive, structured, and built to send people home with something they can use tomorrow morning.

Starting at $400

Good to Know

  • Travel fees apply for events outside the local area.
  • A 25% deposit is required at booking to secure your date.
  • Custom quotes are available for multi-session packages and nonprofit rates.

Ready to bring this to your community?

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Topics I Cover

Practical guidance for every stage.

Newborn to teenager. The questions every parent asks, addressed plainly.

Baby & Infant

The first chapter. Sleep, feeding, and the early months.
  • Sleep training
  • Feeding challenges
  • Newborn care
  • Infant development

Toddler & Preschool

Big feelings, small bodies. Boundaries and emotional growth.
  • Tantrum management
  • Potty training
  • Setting boundaries
  • Emotional regulation

School Age

The years that shape who they become. Confidence and family.
  • Homework battles
  • Screen time balance
  • Building confidence
  • Sibling relationships
About Me
Nanny. Prayer Warrior. Servant of Christ.

Born to wander. Called to serve.

Tonya at a sunlit window at home, holding a warm ceramic mug

The Beginning

I was born in the Philippines and raised around the world as the daughter of a United States Air Force serviceman who gave 23 years to his country. Moving from place to place taught me early that home isn't a location, it's the people you love and the faith you carry with you.

My father retired in Fort Worth, Texas, and it was there, at the age of 17, that I followed a quiet calling to care for children. In 1989, I enrolled at the Nanny Institute of Beverly Hills, completing a full year of training and my internship before earning my certification as a professional nanny.

The Career

Over 35 years, I had the profound privilege of helping raise more than ten infants and caring for countless children across America and around the world. I worked alongside dual-income families, stay-at-home parents, and single dads, adapting to each household while bringing the same steady love and devotion to every child.

In June 2025, after three and a half decades of service, I retired from nannying, not to rest, but to step fully into the next chapter God had been preparing for me.

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A Life in Chapters

The road that brought me here.

Five seasons of one calling.

BirthThe Philippines

Born in the Philippines.

The first of many places I'd call home, growing up as a proud Air Force brat.

1989Age 17

Nanny Institute of Beverly Hills.

Enrolled in professional nanny training. Certified and ready to serve families around the globe.

1989 / 202535 years

A thirty-five year career.

Ten infants raised. Countless children loved. Families in every season of life served with devotion.

2017Rowan County, NC

Founded Pray Rowan.

Established a local prayer ministry in Rowan County. Planting seeds for what would grow into a statewide movement.

2021 / NowStatewide

Leading Pray North Carolina.

A movement uniting believers and strengthening communities across the state through prayer.

Faith & Purpose

"These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

Deuteronomy 6:6–7

Home & Family

Married to my best friend, Greg, a retired Army officer. Happily settled in Salisbury, North Carolina, with our two extremely furry dogs.

Church Community

We worship and serve together at Nazareth Community Church, a Bible-believing and Bible-preaching church in Rockwell, NC.

Pray North Carolina

A growing statewide prayer movement in its fifth year, dedicated to uniting believers and strengthening communities through prayer. www.pray-nc.com

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Books I Recommend

Resources I trust for raising children.

For parents, caregivers, and anyone raising children with intention.

Cover of the Holy Bible
The Holy Bible
The foundation

The first book. The foundation for every other one on this list. Start here, return here, raise your children here.

Find a Copy
Cover of Entitlemania: How Not to Spoil Your Kids by Richard Watts
Entitlemania
Richard Watts

The trap every well-intentioned parent falls into. Read it before the next "easy yes."

Find a Copy
Cover of Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp
Shepherding a Child's Heart
Tedd Tripp

The foundation. Parenting that addresses the heart, not just behavior.

Find a Copy
Cover of Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp
Parenting
Paul David Tripp

Parenting rooted in grace, not formulas. The book I hand to every overwhelmed parent.

Find a Copy
Cover of Boundaries with Kids by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
Boundaries with Kids
Henry Cloud & John Townsend

Loving, clear boundaries are not the opposite of grace. This book proves it.

Find a Copy
Cover of Strong Mothers, Strong Sons by Meg Meeker
Strong Mothers, Strong Sons
Meg Meeker, MD

For mothers raising sons. The courage and confidence to guide a boy into the man he was meant to be.

Find a Copy
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Let's Connect

Book a conversation.

Pick the option that fits and grab a time that works for you.

One simple place to start. Whether you're a parent looking for guidance, a caregiver after practical wisdom, or a church, ministry, or event organizer planning a class or speaking engagement — this 15-minute call is where every conversation begins.

Free Discovery Call

A free 15-minute intro call.

15 minutes · Phone · One-on-one

Tell me a little about what you're hoping for and we'll talk it through. If we're a fit, we'll figure out the right next step together — whether that's parenting consulting, a class for your church, or a speaking engagement for your event.

Let's Begin

Ready to get started?

Whether you need parenting guidance, a trusted nanny, or a speaker for your next event, I'd love to connect.